To get myself grounded in a technology that works for me, I reviewed an audiobook series from Landmark Education. One idea really stood out for me: We create the experience of Love for ourselves. The most wonderful relationship, filled with all sorts of blessings, might be unfolding right before our very faces. Yet, if we are operating from a space where we can’t see Love’s expressions in our life, then there is no amount of loving that can go out to make up for that.
Our experience of Love corresponds to our mental projections of Love. Whatever we believe about how Love should look is how Love occurs for us. Therefore, we have a lot more say in how Love shows up in our lives than we might take responsibility for.